Stray City
Andrea Morales, part of the Portland Lesbian Mafia in the 1990s, has a crisis of identity when her girlfriend dumps her, starts dating her ex, and she falls into a fling with a touring drummer, a man. Unable to risk being ostracized by her chosen family, Andrea keeps it a secret until an accidental pregnancy forces her to make choices. The second half of the book, set later in life, examines how these choices have shaped Andrea, her community, and her family.