Here to Help: Books About Manners & Behavior

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By sharing stories together and having conversations about the books you read, you can help young children understand the world around them. Seeing diverse experiences represented in books helps children to explore their own identities and develop empathy for others.

These books for young children highlight the importance of being considerate to others, sharing, and using good manners.

Not every book is available at all locations, but any title can be requested. The children’s librarian at your neighborhood library is also here to help, with suggestions for additional titles on topics of interest–or feel free to suggest some titles to us. New books are always being added to the collection.

Nov 5, 2026

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In the Catalog

Be Kind

Be Kind

Pat Zietlow Miller

When Tanisha spills grape juice all over her new dress, her classmate contemplates how to make her feel better and what it means to be kind. From asking the new girl to play to standing up for someone being bullied, this thoughtful story explores what a child can do to be kind, and how each act, big or small, can make a difference.

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I'm Sorry You Got Mad

I’m Sorry You Got Mad

Kyle Lukoff

Jack wants to apologize for hurting Zoe’s feelings. He just can’t seem to find the right words. Turns out there’s more to an apology than just saying “I’m sorry.”

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How Do Dinosaurs Show Good Manners?

How Do Dinosaurs Show Good Manners?

Jane Yolen

In rhyming text, naughty dinosaurs learn the importance of having good manners, saying “please” and “thank you,” and never, ever making a mess.

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Time to Say "please"!

Time to Say “please”!

Mo Willems

Narrated by a group of friendly mice, an amusing book provides preschoolers with an introduction to manners through helpful demonstrations of when certain words and phrases, such as “excuse me” and “please,” are used in social situations.

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Even Steven

Even Steven

A Book About Sharing

Carrie Finison

A child who values fairness learns there are many different ways to share.

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The Crayons' Book of Manners

The Crayons’ Book of Manners

Drew Daywalt

The crayons are ready to learn how to be polite. But what do they need to know? When to say please and thank you? How to eat neatly? What to do when they have to (uh-oh!) burp? This laugh-out-loud addition to the crayons mini-picture book series will teach children their manners as they giggle at the crayons’ missteps.

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How to Apologize

How to Apologize

David LaRochelle

Wouldn’t the world be a better place if everyone knew how to apologize? Luckily, this humorous guidebook is full of practical tips about when, why, and how to say you’re sorry. From a porcupine who accidentally popped his friend’s balloon to a snail who was running so fast he stepped on a sloth’s toes.

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Don't Hug Doug (he Doesn't Like It)

Don’t Hug Doug (he Doesn’t Like It)

Carrie Finison

Doug prefers not to be hugged, but there are a variety of other ways his loved ones can show him affection.

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Cub and Bat

Cub and Bat

Will Hillenbrand

An impatient bear wants honey and goes to a lot of trouble to get it until realizing that saying ‘please’ is the simplest solution.

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Leo at Lunch

Leo at Lunch

Anna McQuinn

Leo learns table manners, sits in a special chair, and eats a yummy Italian meal while out to lunch with Daddy and Nana G.

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Say Hello, Sophie!

Say Hello, Sophie!

Rosemary Wells

Sophie’s parents tell her to say ‘Hello,’ ‘Thank-you,’ and ‘Goodbye,’ but the words stick like glue in Sophie’s mouth and won’t come out.

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Did You Burp?

Did You Burp?

How to Ask Questions…or Not!

April Pulley Sayre

Teaches kids what a question is, when to ask one, and how to form one. Friendly tips and pointers (“Keep it short!” “Show interest!”) help kids keep their questions appropriate and on point. Above all, the book encourages readers to keep on asking questions–the beginning of learning about the world.

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